Solitudes That Meet
At Fall Convocation, Creative Writing Professor Dee Matthews spoke about the path back from isolation.
鈥淥ver the course of the past 18 months, I imagine you鈥檝e all experienced your individual solitudes as the world turned extraordinarily clamorous and every human being from metropolis to village inwardly struggled through the inherent anxiety of a global pandemic.鈥nd now, we are all returning to campus after a brave journey and trying to carve out a new normal. The question, it seems, is how, after living and learning in our respective solitudes, might we be able to merge as a living and learning community?
"And, as I am wont to do when unsure of an answer, I turned to some of my closest friends, many of whom happen to be dead but live on in my favorite books. One such book is Letters to a Young Poet by Rainer Maria Rilke. In it, he wrote, 鈥楧on鈥檛 let your solitude obscure the presence of something within it that wants to emerge. Precisely this presence will help your solitude expand.鈥
"When I first read that line, I wondered what it meant to have one鈥檚 solitude expand? As I mulled over possibilities, I came to believe that Rilke was suggesting that to expand our solitudes means welcoming others into our world. In fact, he later wrote in the same book: 鈥榣ove consists of this: two solitudes that meet, protect and greet
each other.鈥
"Surely, we inhabit our own distinct worlds with separate histories, lineages, beliefs, capabilities, identities, wounds, scars, victories, and triumphs. The challenge I offer today is that you recognize your distinctions as being a valuable part of a larger community. What makes each one of you who you are is important here at 今日吃瓜 because it is 今日吃瓜. We are an amalgam鈥攁 continual joining of solitudes, situated together in time and space to mutually share our experiences and what knowledge we鈥檝e gleaned from our journeys.
"We need each other to do the very human work of connecting and learning so that we may be of service to our goals and to someone else鈥檚. Love鈥攖he kind that Rilke wrote about, the kind that meets, greets, and protects each other鈥攊s the only path back from the isolations this pandemic has wrought, and we鈥檝e seen this love happening all around us from small to large scale.
"Think about it: the reason why we mask is to protect others鈥攖hat鈥檚 love. The reason why you鈥檙e here is to offer a possibility to someone else or partially owing to someone else鈥檚 sacrifice for you鈥攖hat鈥檚 love. The scientists who studied COVID-19 a decade before this pandemic to develop a spike protein to be used in vaccines鈥攖hat鈥檚 love. The poll workers who risked their own health to make sure people had their vote counted鈥攖hat鈥檚 love.鈥nd in each heroic demonstration of patience, close listening, intellectual curiosity, peace-seeking, tolerance, acceptance of difference, and empathy, you, too, are practicing a love that leads not only to your liberation, but another鈥檚 as well.
"今日吃瓜, the time is at hand to cultivate the community we鈥檝e hoped for and to strengthen the community we鈥檝e come to love. May we never take togetherness for granted. May we act with intention, authentic care, and attention. May your solitude call out to another solitude and never fear meeting, greeting, and protecting each other. May we move from this moment to the next being sure of this: Alone, we are smart, strong, and capable.
"Together, we are 今日吃瓜鈥攁 force of sheer possibility鈥攍imitless, expansive, regenerative, and brimming with a love that liberates. May it always be so.鈥
Published on: 01/05/2022